We are so excited to serve you during the process of marriage and wedding planning. We offer many resources to help you plan and execute your rehearsal and wedding.
Are you interested in being married at ECBC or by an ECBC Pastor? Please read our Guidelines For A Wedding at ECBC before proceeding. All couples are asked to agree to our guidelines and schedule an interview with one of our pastors.
Guidelines for a Wedding at East Cooper Baptist
- Faith: The Bride and Groom must profess faith in Christ alone as their Lord and Savior.
- Church Membership: Either the bride or groom must be an ECBC member, or be the child/grandchild of a member.
- Biblical Definition of Marriage: The wedding must meet the Biblical Definition of Marriage as outlined in our Wedding Guidelines.
- Purity: As instructed by scripture, the Bride and Groom are asked to have a sexually pure relationship prior to marriage.
- Pre-marriage Counseling is required and is provided by ECBC at no cost.
- Agreement with the Use of Facilities outlined in our Wedding Guidelines.
If you agree with these guidelines and would like to take the next step, please complete the Wedding and Pre-marriage Counseling Form. On this form, you will submit your information and preferred wedding date(s). One of our pastors will promptly reply and ask that you contact him for a meeting to arrange your pre-marriage counseling and to discuss any questions you may have. Once you have met with a pastor, we will confirm the availability of your wedding date and you can secure that date with a deposit.
Frequently Asked Questions
STANDARDS FOR WEDDINGS
The following are the basic standards which have been enacted by the elders to govern the use of the church for weddings:
Because God has ordained marriage and defined it is as the covenant relationship between a man, a woman, and Himself, East Cooper Baptist Church will only recognize marriages between a biological man and a biological woman. Further, our pastors and ministers and the staff of East Cooper Baptist Church shall only participate in weddings and solemnize marriages between one man and one woman. Finally, the facilities and property of East Cooper Baptist Church shall only host weddings between one man and one woman.
The bride and groom must sign a statement of faith in accordance with scripture.
We will not as a church marry a couple that is unequally yoked; (i.e., believer and unbeliever)
We may not, as a church, marry a couple when one party or both have been divorced and reconciliation to the first spouse is still open. (Each case is unique and is reviewed for special circumstances and considerations).
We will not, as a church, marry a couple when a previous divorce situation gives the Elders reasonable doubt that this marriage is of God.
We may not as a church marry a couple if they have maintained an impure or morally lax relationship; or have, in the immediate past, a lifestyle which does not represent Biblical purity.
We may not, as a church, marry a couple if this marriage is radically opposed by their family members and/or friends--unique circumstances are considered. (Each case is unique and is reviewed for special circumstances).
We will not, as a church, marry a couple if they do not satisfactorily complete the premarital course requirements.
COSTS & BREAKDOWNS
The cost for your wedding onsite in the East Cooper Baptist Church Sanctuary is $1000. The initial flat fee covers the use of the facility for 5 hours (this includes rehearsal and wedding ceremony). Any additional time used beyond the 5 hours is $100 per hour. The fee begins when the building is first accessed and ends when the building is vacated. The property must be vacated no later than 10:00p EST. The wedding fees directly support the staff members required to assist in your wedding. For a church the size of East Cooper Baptist, it is imperative that knowledgeable staff be available for your wedding in order for the day of your union to be as stress-free as possible.
The Welcome Center may be reserved for the reception only if the wedding ceremony is held at East Cooper Baptist. The fee for use of the Welcome Center is $1000 for 2 hours maximum (does not include setup/breakdown time). The Kitchen, Gym, Gym restrooms, or any East Cooper Baptist equipment (tables, chairs, or other items) are not included in the fee and are not available for use or rent. The same guidelines for the wedding venue apply to the Welcome Center. No alcohol, no live band, no full meals - finger foods only.
There are no weddings allowed on Sundays and Easter or Thanksgiving weekends. There are limited dates available for December and February weddings.
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